A long week end and a much needed break from work. I spend almost all week ends on football tournaments and this week was no exception. But the national holiday on Monday was something to cheer about and I made up my mind not to venture anywhere outside. But, God had other plans for me…some of my relatives travelled to Chennai because of the long week end and wanted me to come over to my cousin’s place. Denying is no option for me. I hated to go…it is not about waking up in the morning…it is not about travelling in the Chennai heat…it is not even about meeting them, but it is all about something that they lavishly shower me with and it comes for free… “ Advise ”. This time around I am going to get feed for receiving advice… After the initial pleasantries it was down to business. Aunties, Uncles and cousins…all of them had their own set of advice for me from money management to marriage. I can understand the Aunties and the Uncles, but these cousins are younger to me!!!…well, just